This post originally appeared on Gurl and you should check it out. We often say things without thinking but take a moment to reflect on these offensive phrases before saying them again. 1. “Ewww, I feel so fat.” 2. “You’re really pretty for a plus-sized girl.” 3. “Stop saying you’re fat, you’re beautiful.” 4. “Do you … Continue reading
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6 Ways Well-Intentioned People Whitesplain Racism (And Why They Need to Stop)
This article originally appeared in Every Day Feminism and you should check it out to get a great breakdown of why this practice needs to stop. Here’s a quick summary in the meantime. If you don’t believe whitesplaining is wrong, then you’re missing how the motivation behind whitesplaining is influenced by white supremacy. So let’s … Continue reading
#MenAreTrash – STEALTHING
Stealthing is a practice where men secretly remove or damage condoms without their partners’ knowledge. Continue reading
Claiming your Identity by understanding your self-worth| Judge Helen Whitener
Judge Helen Whitener was a former Washington State Board of Industrial Insurance Appeals Judge and a former pro-tem judge in Pierce County District Court and the City of Tacoma Municipal Court. She is very active locally, nationally and internationally in various community service activities. She speaks often on Human Rights, Access to Justice, and the … Continue reading
Born a girl in the wrong place | Khadija Gbla
Khadija Gbla grew up in Sierra Leone. As a young girl, she was subjected to Female Genital Mutilation (FGM). As a woman, she lives with the consequences of FGM everyday. She is determined that this form of abuse against young girls will end, and she wants to end it in her lifetime. Khadija strives to … Continue reading
From ‘devil’s child’ to star ballerina | Michaela DePrince
Michaela DePrince grew up as an orphan in Sierra Leone during the civil war. Her life was difficult from the start, with her father killed by militant rebels and her mother dying of starvation. Frequently malnourished, mistreated and derided, life only got worse when she had to flee to a refugee camp after her orphanage … Continue reading
VIDEO: ‘Black Girl’ by Vuyelwa Maluleke
Vuyelwa Maluleke’s poetry is influenced largely by her urban surroundings, the women within them, the men they choose to love, and the sisters and children they make room for in the world. Watch this talented young lady as she recites her poetry. Sourced from YouTube Continue reading
Confessions of a D Girl : Chika Okoro
In a world where light skin, light eyes and long “real” hair are sought after features, Chika Okoro tells us how she copes, and what we can do to unlearn this deep rooted, destructive mindset. Okoro is a second year MBA student at Stanford. Passionate about race and gender equality, she is excited to raise … Continue reading
Black girl magic in the fashion industry | Ebonee Davis
After being discovered at the age of 18, Ebonee Davis left Seattle for New York City to pursue her modeling dream. In this Ted x Talk, Davis recalls her experiences as a black model in the industry. Have a look at how she emphasizes that the fashion industry does not only reflect and beauty standards, its a … Continue reading
Guest post : To have and to Let Go
Sunday afternoon, my mother’s kitchen Johannesburg South This is officially my first post as a married woman. Yes, me, I am married. Two weeks ago a pastor, who made a beautiful speech that involved Jungian theory, married my now husband and me. It’s still a bit dreamlike in my head but here is where I … Continue reading
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