In case you haven’t been bombarded by the fashion that happened these past few weeks, let me remind you. The MET GALA was lit. (and no I am not talking about that one dress that lit up) I mean can we spare a moment to realize how awesome Lupita’s hair was?! (also note that it … Continue reading
Dear Rapist I honestly do not know how to start this letter. Usually I would insert a witty and cool first line with a follow up sentence which explains how I could possibly say such. When it comes to rape I really don’t think that there is an appropriate way to begin, but let me … Continue reading
Dear Shamer, Midday conversations led to my friend telling me about her first time. See, what had happened was that while still in the ‘dating’ part of their relationship her male counterpart had asked whether she was a virgin or not. And of course, when I say ‘ask’ I mean that he half laughed, … Continue reading
Dear me, Racial fetishism. Defined, the term ‘Racial fetishism’ involves a fetish for a person or culture belonging to a race or ethnic group that is not one’s own—therefore it involves racial/ ethnic stereotyping and objectifying those bodies who are stereotyped, and at times their cultural practices. In my opinion, I have come to see … Continue reading
Being Natural has its moments, especially during wash day and humid days! But nothing grinds a lazy natural more than dealing with days like that and more. If you’re a lazy natural you’ll definitely relate! Day 1 – Saturday Washed my hair. Did not pre-poo because I wasn’t in the mood. In fact, I didn’t … Continue reading
The other day I was listening to a radio talk show as I drove home. It was call in time and the lines were open to discuss any issue that callers had on their minds. A lady who wanted to remain anonymous made a comment about how excited she was that there was a ban … Continue reading
Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week Johannesburg took place this past weekend at Nelson Mandela Square, Sandton in South Africa. Writer Hulisani, was on the scene and has our favorite top 8 moments of the weekend. 1.Can we please talk about how ready to wear this outfit is! The colour, the pattern, the length. This is everything. … Continue reading
Dear Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, In 2013, I took the conscious decision to become a feminist. Now I know that sounds strange but hear me out. I had struggled for years and had been on the brink of wanting to be a feminist but not caring what happened to other women because it wasn’t happening to … Continue reading
I have heard people often say that their mom is ‘the actual best’ but let me take a moment of your time to let you know that MY mom IS THE ACTUAL BEST. The first time that I realized that my mom was ‘the actual best’ was when I found out how much she loves … Continue reading
When I think of my closest friend, I automatically see Jessica Thulisile Mgidi’s face. Ask me ten years ago and the only thing that I could tell you about her would be that she loves to play chess and is a short person. Fast forward to 2016 and I can successfully answer quizzes on her … Continue reading
